I have just watched a little of the movie Eat.Pray.Love with Julia Roberts. It seems that she..
goes on an adventure of self discovery and ultimately achieves her goal. Good for her is what i say and for all those people ,myself included who have had a similar experience.
I have learnt though, that it doesn't really matter where you go. You will be the same person deep down you always were only now it will be have been confirmed for you. Changes will undoubtedly happen in our lives directly and indirectly. Some for better or for worse ( a bit like marriage ) . How we deal with change is really the crucial part.
When i was younger , i hated change. I did not like the ground being pulled from beneath me at all. In fact, it used to scare me. When my friend got married or a relative moved away i did not like it. Even at the end of a stage in my life , for example university or at the end of a work contract, there was always this feeling of 'what now'? It was like i had just gotten used to a certain way of life and now to change it seemed strange somehow.
I don't bother with my horoscope but once read that taureans hate change and being a taurean , that struck a chord with me. From that day on, i decided to embrace change in my life.
Since then, there has been a difference in my mind set and i now know that change is good!
It's the way of the world that nothing stays the same. Everything adapts and grows somehow.
This time of year is all about new beginnings in some way or another and if like i had, you have a fear of change.. Then this is the perfect time to face your fear!
Whatever it is that lays itself in front of you . Whatever you need to do in order to move forward for the better , don't let nothing or no one stop you ! Go for it
Grab September by the you know whats, and lets bring it on.
There is nothing more redundant than the emotion of fear. It is a complete waste of time . There are however times when fear is good of course ,but when discussing moving forward in a positive and healthy way, it's unnecessary. In my opinion it is definitely over rated and there is something else that you can be doing instead. That is get busy embracing change in your life, use it as a stepping stone to propel you forward into better situations and at least be in with a chance of achieving your very own adventure of self discovery..sounds like fun doesn't it?
